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For the past
several months I have been receiving frantic phone calls from clients with
anxiety, nightmares and a general sense of impending doom. Many peoples’ lives
seem to be in chaos. With the approaching end of the Mayan calendar, our
futures were in question. All of humanity seems to feel something coming, but
This period of
time is very difficult on everyone, but is felt more strongly by sensitive
individuals. The key is to realize that you are not alone, you are not crazy
and chances are that what you are feeling is not personal. By not personal I
mean, what is happening is global. Even though the affects can feel personal,
the effect is global.
It is time to
change. It is time to regain our moral compass and our connection to God, the
Universe and Mother Earth. The heightened interest in Spirituality, Eastern
Medicine and the mind-body-spirit connection are symptoms of the times. In
order to change the outer structures, we need to change our inner voices.
around us, those that truly support us, are not man-made. The structures that
truly support us as beings are energetic, spiritual and then physical. The
man-made structures built around us were originally designed to support our
growth and give us more time for introspection and spiritual pursuits. Many of
these things have backfired.
Most of these
man-made structures need major overhauls. In America in 2008 the populace cried
out for change, unaware that the change can only happen if it begins within us.
Our world is rampant with disillusionment and fear. At the same time there
exists a growing movement of Truth and Joy. These two camps are pulling further
and further apart, in thought, expression, action and vibration.
the vibrational frequency of these two groups is polarized enough, one will
apparently cease to exist. Is this the Rapture described in the Bible? Those
who act out of pure compassion and love, those who follow in the Christ’s
footsteps by following the Universal Laws will apparently cease to exist to
those trapped in the vibration of apathy and fear. Is this the shift spoken of
in so many ancient cultures like the Mayans?
culture we cry out for freedom of thought and word yet punish those who voice
opinions different than our own. Is this Truth? Will we allow might to continue
to make right? Our monetary systems are arbitrary at best. What do you have to
offer your fellow citizens when these things shift or even cease to exist?
Gold? Jewels? Or something more valuable, like compassion and support.
Now is the time
to be who you truly be. The astrology** reflects this as a time of reckoning.
The façade of the 50s gave way to the hippie culture of the 60s, but have we come a long way, baby? What have
we accomplished? Our greed and short-sightedness have created a polluted, dying
world in chaos. Yet we can see heaven just around the corner. Are we
delusional? Or are we simply optimistic?
Let us reach
deep to find the best in ourselves. Let us reach down to our roots where we are
all connected in Spirit. Let us find our common ground, celebrate our cultures,
heal our planet and move forward in compassion and grace. BE the change you
want to see in the world, because you are the only one who can be who you be.
It's hard to believe that we just finished our
fifth show. Geralyn and I tend to get
into these very involved discussions about all kinds of things—relationships,
coaching, goals, values communication, motivation, the list goes on and on. Usually, somewhere in the middle of the
conversation, one of us would say “We should be recording this!” So now, not
only do we record a lot of our conversations but we also decided to start doing
a radio show. Geralyn has lots of experience doing shows. Me? Well, not so much,
but I am learning and having a great time. Thanks so much for joining us and we
will do our best to give you lots to think about.
when we first started, I wondered how we would fill an half an hour...
As the show IS
only 30 minutes, Geralyn and I realized that we would almost certainly have
much more to say on most topics. So we thought it might be a good idea to start
a blog. I wanted to start doing this right after the first session but we both have
so many things in the works at the moment that it's taken until now to get
One of our
goals for the show is to have it be interactive. If there's something you'd
like us to talk about or you have any questions, comments or feedback, please
drop us a note or give a call. We also both currently have coaching sessions
available if there’s something you’d like some help with. You can reach me at 717-290-1736 or email@example.com. You can reach Geralyn at 808-261-7866 or Geralyn@voiceofspirit.com. We’re on Facebook—our page is called
Syd and Geralyn http://www.facebook.com/pages/Syd-and-Geralyn/326433000774353and you can also contact us at www.WholisticUniversity.org.
You may have
heard me say during the show that a huge part of a good relationship comes down
to communication. I use the phrase “managing
expectations”. Managing expectations means that you think about your actions
and what results they might bring, and you discuss them with your partner if at
all possible before you take those
actions. Many times things that can cause stress in a relationship happen
because one person doesn’t understand the other person's motivation and actions. If you simply talkabout things (I know
it’s a radical idea) many misunderstandings can be avoided totally.
What I'd like to do whenever I do a
blog post is to give you something to try with your partner. The purpose is to
help improve your communication, your awareness and to have some fun together. I'd like to suggest that you keep these
exercises light and playful. This isn't heavy duty therapy here it's just
something to bat around and play with. Remember the goal here is simply to spend some
time with your partner and to enjoy yourselves. After all isn't that supposed
to be one of the benefits of being in a relationship?
Exercise #1 - Perceptual Positions
moment to think back to a discussion that you had with your partner recently.
It can be just about anything. It can even be something that the two of you
didn't totally agree on. (Hint: that's my positive spin or "reframe"
on what some people call a disagreement).
Got one? Good.
1) Now what I want you to do is replay or reenact it.
Stay detached--almost like you're reading a script.
Run through the exchange the way you remember it from
start to finish.
Once you're done, rewind it back to the beginning and do
it again, but this time I want you to imagine that you've switched places with
your partner and you’re speaking as them.
imagine for a moment that you are them, experiencing what they experience
during the discussion. If it was a "disagreement", you're now on
the other side. Go through the conversation again, experiencing it from the other
side. Notice what you notice.
What are you saying, as them?
are you feeling, as them?
do things look like through their eyes?
Take a few minutes to contemplate this perspective
2) Go back to the beginning of the conversation again. This time when
you replay it, imagine the situation from a third person’s view; In other
words, watching yourself and your partner as if you are watching two friends
have a discussion. Again take it from beginning to end.
Pay particular attention to the space between those two
people (you and your partner).
do the two of you look?
do you sound?
What feelings do you get while watching this
from a third person position?
Take a few minutes to contemplate this perspective
3) We've got one more. This time as you run the show, imagine that you’re
way up above the situation. Some people call this the God position. This time
experience the situation as you might if you were God or Spirit or the Field.
Whatever you'd like to call it is fine. What we are going for here is a
perceptual position that is way up above what's going on down there. This is a
position which is all seeing and all knowing.
What does that
What do you notice now?
When you're in this
position not only do you experience the conversation, but all things that are
going on around it as well.
Take some time to
talk about the different things you experienced in each of the different
Looking back on that
situation, how does it seem different now?
should give you something to chew on for a little while. You may find that some
of our blog posts will have a very obvious tie in to that week's show and other
posts will have a different kind of connection. It's just another part of our
journey as we take you from limiting
beliefs to limitless love.
It's 12/22/12 and we are still here. I don't believe that
the Mayan calendar meant the world would end--but that we would be
I felt a very strange sensation Thursday night--tough to
describe to those of you (and by you, I include myself) who aren’t as in tune
as Geralyn is… It felt like I was carrying the collective anxiety of the world
on my shoulders. Those of you who know me are used to hearing me say “I have
big shoulders, I can handle it”. This was different. I ran it past Ger and she said—“Welcome to my
world”. (Not the most helpful response
I’ve ever had from her but she is right—a lot of this stuff is new to me.) I am
still trying to process what I experienced.
So much has happened recently that I am unable to make sense
I freely admit that (if you haven’t noticed), I have some
very strong opinions. I also acknowledge that I can get caught up in wanting to
“be right”. I think if we “chunk up” on
our thought process, we all want to make the world a better place. We are just
divided on the methods of how to do so.
So...here we are. For all intents and purposes, you have a
clean slate. You can do and be anything you want. What will you do...NOW?
I'm interested to
hear responses--I personally plan on doing a lot more writing and do everything
I can to make sure that I keep my interactions with people are rooted in Love.
Merry Christmas to all and to all…a…that’s
Listen as Success Integration Coach Syd Vitale and Intuitive Relationship Coach Geralyn St Joseph discuss Surviving Loss - How to Handle Grief in your Relationship
During the holidays we tend to reminisce about the past - good or bad. This can be fun or it can be sad when someone you love is no longer present. How do you handle sorrow? Grief and loss? How does your partner? Can you be supportive while processing your own grief? What does that support look like?
Join Success Integration Coach Syd Vitale and Intuitive Relationship Coach Geralyn St Joseph to discuss Surviving Loss - How to Handle Grief in your Relationship
Let Success Integration Coach Syd Vitale and Intuitive Relationship Coach Geralyn St Joseph lead you from limiting beliefs to limitless love!
Visit www.WholisticUniversity.org for more info
Call Geralyn at 808 261-7866 email Geralyn@VoiceofSpirit.com
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